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Karman Hotchkiss

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Can Tension Build a Better Team?

Today one of my coaching clients taught me about a new-to-me psychological phenomenon: The Ben Franklin Effect. The idea behind this concept is that when we do a favor for someone, it makes us like them more.

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When Growth Requires a Little Discomfort

My husband and I met on a blind date. It was a long time ago, but I still remember awkwardly walking around with him at an art show on the...

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The Two Most Powerful Feedback Words

Feedback is tough. Not very many of us are great at giving or getting it. Even after years of managing a creative team—where I gave feedback just...

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Lots of questions

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Why You Don’t Actually Want To Be the One With the Answers (and it’s not why you think)

Yes, I was that student. The one who REALLY liked to have all the answers. And when I’m not careful, I let that mindset dominate my management style...

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Learning that Questions, Not Answers, Make Me More Effective

Early in my career, I had the chance to attend an out-of-town workshop about how to be a better publications editor. Since my job at the time was...

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stir-fry in a dish

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Are You Treating Your Team Like They’re Crockpot Employees—When They’re Really a Stir-Fry?

Last week I was chatting with my friend Dorothy about work things. Coworkers and bosses and getting stuff done. “My boss told me one day that I’m a...

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Does Everyone on Your Team Have the Same Definition of Success?

A few weeks ago, the BecomeMore Group team members spent several days at an off-site workshop planning for 2024. And by "off-site" I mean "Florida!"...

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When protecting your team hurts, not helps

Protecting my team members from baloney. That’s what I used to think was one of my most important jobs as a leader. I’d do whatever I could to keep...

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When your coworker does that inexplicable thing

“What were they thinking?!” As a career coach, I hear that a lot when people describe to me an incident in their workplace. Someone has done...

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The 8 phases of change I wish I'd known about sooner

I was at college orientation with my son when my boss called. Which was weird, because she knew where I was and wouldn’t have interrupted my day for...

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